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Post by Gary on Jan 20, 2011 23:29:08 GMT -5
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Post by wwe682 on Jan 20, 2011 23:30:07 GMT -5
btw, I POSTED THIS
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Post by Tiago on Jan 25, 2011 12:50:56 GMT -5
If it happened to me this time around I would payback for sure. Being with friends may help a lot, since these guys targets are lonely people. There are other ways to fight this, but the best way is talking to your parents so they can do something about it, because they're your best friends for life.
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Post by Malaphesto on Jan 25, 2011 18:25:47 GMT -5
A little shooty shooty will put them in their place
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Post by Undamaged Threat on Jan 26, 2011 1:54:16 GMT -5
A little shooty shooty will put them in their place You know I shouldn't laugh at that. But guess what.....I did. ;D |
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Post by Goldash on Feb 3, 2011 20:26:11 GMT -5
I've had my fair share of it myself, and middle school (Grade 6-8) was one of the worst times of my life socially. But it's done and I've moved past it.
With that being said, although I wish all bullying would stop overnight, it won't. I have personal experience that even if teachers get involved, it won't calm down. Kids today are in a worse position than I was thanks to the ubiquity of the internet and the cyberbullying phenomenon, making it all the more inescapable. And when you feel as if you have nowhere else to turn, life becomes hell on Earth. That's what drives some of these kids to suicide.
I think more support and attention should be paid to bullying cases, and extracurricular clubs for kids to nonjudgmentally share their feelings should be implemented. One of the ways I moved past bullying after middle school was joining the football team and the media productions club in High School, which grouped me with people who not only shared my interest but people I could also confide in and talk to about problems.
Granted, not every kid's experience is going to be as easy to fix but there are times where resources should be available to allow kids to vent. Also, other kids should stand up for the victimized DESPITE the fear of being "included" in the ridicule. Often times someone that makes a stand for someone else can make all the difference. Because I've been there myself, and to even have no one there to stand up for you also makes things worse.
Bullying is a fact of life and it can't be removed...I hate to say it, but yeah. But there's plenty of ways to deal with it. Suicide or violence aren't, and neither is ignoring the problem entirely (as my father told me). It often takes a group of people to make it right, and that's what I think works. Strength in numbers. Because no matter how alone a victimized child feels, there's always somewhere to turn for help. It's just that kids don't want to seek it for fear of the problem worsening. And while I understand that, I really think that seeking help is right. Tattling doesn't work, because eventually, teachers will become annoyed and turn a blind eye (true story). Student clubs and organizations DO help.
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Post by DayWalker on Feb 4, 2011 18:04:06 GMT -5
well
my bullying experienced was bad and it was all in high school.
in high school in the UK , i got bulled in my school so many times in year 9,10 ,11 and also teachers told me just to ignore the bullies but it still continued on and bullying has elevated to another level and bullying can be in schools,jobs and maybe it home.
Since i left high school and I'm in college i feel much better already because i have good friends and i just mind my own business and keep it quit and i want to work in a good working postive environment.
all i say is
just move on and forget about the bullies and build self-confidence and also go to people who may help on bullying
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